Aku suka buat lawatan blog-blog
budak remaja ni. Kelakar, pelik dan mengingatkan aku zaman remaja dulu. Kalau
dulu aku memang kategori budak skema (ehem..). ada sesetengah part yang buat
aku rasa bersyukur aku tak buat benda-benda mengarut –sebab bila kukenang balik
i was like..”duhh”. Tapi ada gak yang aku rasa “eiii rugi nya tak buat macam tu
dulu” hah!!
Recently when i was blogwalking,
i came to read this particular blog. Adik ni baru masuk 14-15 tahun agaknya. I
remembered one of my ustaz called this fragile year as “zaman menggatal”
–harsh! But true indeed. Her blog (and the situation is same with her
other-same-age-friends) always talked about how cute this guy was, caring and
so-so, and this guy will be her last-time-lover, and 2-3 weeks after that
they’re broke up. And she’ll meet another guy but the case will be the same.
Puppy love, been calling each other baby-hubby, do things together and broke up
cause of the “gaming” excuses. She’d been game (played, game tu istilah remaja
sekarang) by some guy then other guy dumped her and so on.
One thing I do realized that as
teenagers, they always wanted to love and be loved in return (well it goes the
same to we, adults as well). Human nature to be precise. Dan bila jumpa
seseorang yang lebih baik (lelaki @ perempuan) they tend to fall in love –easily.
Lain k zaman hakak dulu. Kalau minat pun simpan dalam hati je, tak pun beritahu
kawan-kawan rapat and paling gedik bagi surat la (haish). Kalau yang cun-cun tu
memang senang pancing undi tapi yang agak “chubby” and “jambu” ni memang ke
laut je la dek!
Tapi ada satu post yang buat aku
terkedu sekejap. This girl cut her hands –macam troll #cutforbieber yang pernah
trending kat twitt-er tu.. bukan la potong habis tapi dok kerat-kerat tangan
tu. Ish ish ish..ngilu k. Such a cute girl..she is. Maybe at this tender age
the urge to do something –to show people they loved that they do love them
..faham tak ek? –is beyond our expectations. Masa ni lah bergelora semangat nak
mencuba sesuatu yang baru –sebab tu ade kes terlampau sekarang ni –buang anak,
lari rumah, mabuk, etc etc etc. Bukan tak ada zaman aku muda-muda dulu. Tapi tak
menggerunkan macam sekarang. Should we blame the technologies –smart phones,
internet, social networks?
ngilu hakak!!
It’s for us to find out. And for
the young generation to cope with the current waves of evolution.
p/s: Berchenta guna surat sangat
romantik tau! Hahahaha
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